about handling suicidal friends
Dated Wednesday, September 30, 2015
it's not a "one size fits all" kind of situation - different people are suicidal for a variety of reasons, i think adaptation is pretty important. whenever i see a post on how "everyone will miss you!!!", "you're selfish, not thinking of the people who love you", it kinda ticks me off bc look, not everyone is fortunate to have people who love them. which is probably why they're suicidal in the first place. simply put, don't assume anything.

another thing i want to ask is
why do people assume that they have the rights to someone else's life?
what i mean by this is that whenever a friend gets wind of their friend's suicidal tendencies, their first reaction is to tell them that they shouldn't be doing this, there's a future ahead of them-- not that i'm holding this against them, this is the natural reaction when you find out someone you hold dear wants to end their life.

but think about it in an alternate perspective i'm going to show you now. "suicide" is a mean to an end. "your problems can be solved!!!" mhm okay. what these people are doing are, to me, further dictating how others should live their lives. to put it in layman terms, "no u r not allowed to die bc i will be sad". but living is painful for these people. why can't you fucking understand this. "no u r not allowed to die bc i don't want u to die", not listening to the reasons why they want to end themselves, giving all sorts of rubbish reasons. sometimes there are certain problems that simply cannot be solved, such as personality errors, and something gone wrong in the mind.

cute how you project your perfect little lives onto people who don't have the ability to make their lives such, and assume that everything can be controlled and
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